- Humans are more rivalrist than we like to believe. So much so, that it’s our human nature to tend towards rivalries and competition. We’ve seen it since the beginning of time, as almost every religious culture has ancient stories of sibling rivalries. This is because, as humans, we take delight in seeing someone else fail. This is something we should be hyper-aware of because according to Luke Burgis, envy always leads towards misery.
- Look at it from this perspective – if no one else wanted the things in life you wanted, would you question if that thing is truly desirable? This can range from dating and business, to even the food we order at a restaurant. The strange mystery of desire is that we look to other humans to figure out what it is that we want, and we adopt another’s desires as our own. This creates problems when we are all competing towards having the same thing.
- These shared desires and outcomes then lead us towards a scarcity mindset, and we look to those who desire what we do and view them as a rival or competition. More often than not, this leads us down a path towards envy and misery. But not all rivalries are bad. We see healthy competition in sports and business all the time, such as Enzo Ferrari and Ferruccio Lamborghini to Larry Bird and Magic Johnson.
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