A path to safety
Are you or is someone you know stuck in a harmful relationship? Here are some resources to help you gain wisdom and direction for stepping toward freedom.
Emotional abuse has been proven to be one of the most damaging types of abuse long term. Three types of emotional abuse can easily be disguised: gaslighting, retaliation and projection. Learn about the common types to become aware if you’re in an emotionally abusive relationship.
If emotional abuse is present in your relationship, setting boundaries is crucial. If you think your safety’s at stake, learn the steps to effectively set boundaries in harmful relationships.
You may want to know how to support someone you love who’s in an abusive relationship. Here are several ways that can enable you to be there for them.
Abuse in Marriage – Video Series
What Is Domestic Abuse in Marriage? – Darby Strickland
Do you suspect that you’re suffering from domestic abuse in your marriage? Maybe you’ve become confused and have lost the ability to see your situation clearly.
Darby Strickland, counselor and author of ‘Is It Abuse?’ describes the different types of domestic abuse and encourages victims to seek help and share their story with a trusted individual.
How to Help Someone in an Abusive Marriage – Darby Strickland
Darby Strickland explains how to help someone in an abusive relationship. She encourages helpers to stay at the victim’s pace and to be careful with how they respond to information shared.
Misconceptions of Abuse in the Church – Darby Strickland
Counselor Darby Strickland talks about the common misconceptions of abuse, especially within the four walls of the church. She describes the motives behind an abusive spouse, and how an abuser often is different behind the scenes versus when the spotlight is on him or her.
If an Abusive Spouse Is Not Repentant – Darby Strickland
Darby Strickland, author of ‘Is It Abuse?’ talks about the sad reality of an unrepentant abusive spouse who is unwilling to change. She lists some ways in which churches and counselors approach situations such as this.
If Abuse Isn’t Physical Abuse in a Marriage – Darby Strickland
What if someone is being abused by their spouse, but it’s not necessarily physical? Darby Strickland explains how to address this instance.
She challenges people to ask, “What impact is the abuse having on a victim?” rather than only focusing on the type of abuse.
Hope for Abuse Victims – Darby Strickland
Darby Strickland offers hope to victims of spousal abuse and encourages them. She explains how God doesn’t just come to save us from our sin; He also comes to save us from our suffering.